Mother Theresa - Doing & Giving

"It's not how much we do, but how much love we put into the doing.

It's not how much we give, but how much love we put into the giving".

Spoken by Mother Theresa.

How I wish all our friends  could follow the footsteps of Mother Theresa by doing our work with commitment and compassion. As lives are always uncertain and unpredictable but with dedication from our work, more lives and families could be protected. The future of our country, would be a better and a safer place to live in..

Love You Mother Theresa.

A S H A

God wants us to win with pains.

"Winning horse doesn't know why it runs in race.

It runs because of beats and pains.

Life is a race, God is your rider.

So if you are in pain, think God wants you to win."

Life has its up and down. More so, if you are a good man but face with a lot of obstacles in your present life journey. Especially towards the later part of our lives. We face next challenges and we have to accept changes as well. Friends we thought were sincere, played us out. Business that supposed to come our way, was taken away by unethical practises. Accounts to be credited to us were delayed for no reason. Our loved mom/ dad, fell sick and we needed to pay the medical bills. All expenses rose up but income fell. I know these hardships are terrible for us to face.

If you could read another few more times of the above poem, I assure you, your belief and faith would change to be stronger. The pains that we are shouldering are God given. He knows you are a good man. He just wants to test your final journey, whether you could accept and overcome those pains. Don't forget here is not heaven. In order to qualify ourselves for that destination, can we take the pains of life.

We have the knowledge and wisdom, I believe we could make the best of what we have and be the final winner at the end of this journey. May God bless you but take the pains whole heartedly!

ASHA

True affection

" Without simplicity, one cannot gain the true affection of others".

It is so simple to make others to like you but just that the world complicates by not applying simplicity in life. Try and you would make life easier.

Love Me Now..

"Love me now, while I am living.

Do not wait until I am gone.

To have those sweet words chiseled in marble on ice-cold stone.

If you have tender thoughts of me,

Please let me know now.

Not when I am not there".                            

 

Beautifully written and hope these few words could inspire all  to be courageous in telling to their loved one while they are still around.

Words are meaningful and if they are written and given to the rightful person and more so at the rightful time. Just a few hours ago, I met a depressed and frustrated friend of mine. She was complaining that her job is bad and salary was not paid on time. While we were having a plate of idly, a sms message was received over her mobile phone. While reading the text, she was giggling, smiling and laughing with joy. All her depression and frustration disappeared.

I was amused and asked her what had happened. She showed me the message from her boyfriend after a silly quarel for 5 days. It was written as: " My dear, I LoveU, I NeedU, I MissU and I want to be with you forever.Iam very sorry ". After this incident that stupid said that she must be punctual to office to reach her targets.What a maricle.

Wow! I cannot imagine those simple words of love could change a person's mood so fast. Now I learn and know, I too have to be brave in showing my affection to those I love most in my life.. Would you..?

A S H A.

Love is blind...!

We heard this sentence alot of times..But I Agree this after reading these statements in a magazine.Believe it, "Love is blind." The most incompatible couples got marry recently. The first is Bao Xishun, 56, a 2.36m herdsman listed by Guinness World records as the tallest living man married to his bride, Xia Shujuan, 29, of 1.68m. In term of age and height different, they have to live with it. Bao must be a sweet talker to convince her bride. The second is a British grandma, Jane Felix-Browne, aged 51 married one of the sons of al-Qaeda chief Osama bin Laden. Her husband is 27 years old Omar bin Laden. She must be a brave white lady to marry a fearful name of Laden who can be her son instead.

What matter most is these wedded couples love each other. No barrier of age, race, nationality, religion and height can deter their differences. As long as there are true loves, miracle would happen. I wish them happiness and love be with them forever.

LOVE IS BLIND....!!!

SMS

" There is always one person in our life whom we give numerous 2nd chances "

Because  we don't hate him/her as much as we love him/her.

SMS from my friend.

Life comes together with good & bad.

Hi readers..I strongly believe for whatever happened, there must be a reason, whether is good or bad. Just last nite, while returning home from our shopping , I saw a minor bike accident on the way. It created a commotion when all passing motorists slowing their vehicles just to stare at the accident. The polices were there to control the heavy traffic. The ambulance was there to provide medical assistance. The toll trucker was there to remove those damaged motor cars. A lot of bystanders watching and doing nothing. I am sure, they did not want to cause this accident with intention. On the other hand, without this accident all these people would not be around there. With the accident, the polices had a responsibility to shoulder, the ambulance brought medical attention and the toll trucker had extra job. Every one of them had an opportunity to provide services and attention which in turn translated into money or income. For this accident to happen, it allowed others to earn and live or to be in business. The accident could be considered as bad but on the other hand, the opportunity for others to assist the accident might be good. Its bad for some but could be good for others.

Looking at the world passes by, we definitely cannot escape the good and bad way of life. Whether you like it or not, we have to appreciate our life journey as a package of good and bad. Today you might be happy but tomorrow if you were to face with some sadness, do accept them as happiness as well.


ASHA

Punctunity earns respect and trust.

Most Indian have a bad habit, we are always not punctual with appointments, or even to office. Every time we are late, we have reasons like, traffic jam, bus break down or our cars , bike can't start, accident or not feeling well. We have forgotten, the more excuses we give, the more it reflexes on our characters. Being not punctual, relates that one isn't responsible. If the person is fully a committed one, he will be serious to plan right to be on time for each appointment. No matter how far the location or how heavy is the traffic, he will plan to reach his destination perfectly. This is the most important good habit which i dont have at all..Will try to be in punctual from this moment.Hope you do.

Be Punctual 

ASHA

I will always walk beside you no matter what happen!

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Do you notice? Successful working men have more time to think of women.Both could be busy with their work, but man tend to think of his loved mate more. By nature when a man strikes rich, his first thought will be for his love. He feels happy and proud to share his success to the one he loves most. He will be even more happier to buy gifts for his mate, at that moment of his achievement. For every person there should be their loving mate to be successful in life.You can't even image your happy moments or success moments without your soul mate. Life is only once. Dont comprise in choosing your soul mate for other silly things of caste, money,pride or for other sake..its you yourself have to decide about LIFE.

Good Luck all..And wish me too....!!
A S H U.

Not in love, in love or rejected in love!!

Every human being lives with feeling all the times. Our mind will never stop to think and feel. The only time, our brain ceases to think and function is when we are dead. Love is always a feeling in our heart. As I ponder over this feeling of love, I believe each and everyone would fall into either of these three types. You are either not in love or in love or rejected in love. Which group are you in?

If you are currently still not in love, most likely you have to do things by yourself. You could be happy and at time you could be sad. There are positive and negative energies within yourself. As long as you have good influences around, you would be happy and cheerful. However life is always uncertain,when there are the ups and downs that you have to face. In the events when you are encountered with difficult obstacles and challenges, your mind might be upset and frustrated. Under such circumstances, as you are not in love, you have to accept the situation and to live and solve ways by yourself.

Those who are in love have different feeling and behaving. Love has magical charm which tickles our heart and mind. The magical charm lifts our mind to a floating like in feeling. You are always positive in character. Willing to accept challenges. Looking forward to each day as a happy day. Your eyes sparkle and your face grows with joy. Obstacles would be turned into opportunities. Hardship and work are fun and excitement. You tend to achieve most things you want on earth. Coz you have another love to share the wonderful part of yourself.

Avoid this type as to be rejected in love. Another meaning is love sick. Once happened, all your positive outlook in life will disappear. Your heart saddened and your mind is depressed. There is no cure for love sick. You refused to move. Life is ugly and torturous. Most likely you can't eat and sleep because of the pain in heart. Your face will be sunken to frustration. For sure, you loose weight and look sickly in manner. Every day is an ugly day to you. You have nothing to look forward to in life, unless you can find another love.

Those who are not brave, might choose to remain as neutral. To stay away and not to fall in love. Because in love, it has the joy and pain. For those , who accept great challenges of life, will never be afraid to be in love. Coz plz believe Love has magic which will lead  to the freedom world of joy. everyone knows that pain is part of love but with plenty of patience, tolerance and understanding of life, One  would sail to avoid the painfulness of love....!!!

Asha

'A happy heart will see a beautiful world'

'A happy heart will see a beautiful world'. Meaning. You will never see a beautiful world if your heart is sad and sorrowful. You might have a problem now. You have a choice to solve it with a happy heart or an unhappy heart. If you think of all the good things you have at the moment, I am sure you will be happy. Use the happy feeling and solve your problem at the sametime. I am sure you will get a better result. However if you choose to feel unhappy of heart, and at the sametime you try to solve your immediate problem, most likely you may not solve it at all. Understand?


 "In short, solve all problems with a happy heart. In turn you will have fun and laughter over them. After all, life has got to be interesting. No matter what happen, see the happy and positive part of it."


"Act happy, feel happy, be happy, without a reason in the world. Then you can love, and do what you will" 

Hey all here is a mini statement of life from my seniour collegue.May be useful

" The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides "


I didn't immediately fall for her(my wife) on the first sight though she has all the attractiveness and sexiness as a lady. I only fell for her when I could see the love in her heart..We are very much happy now Asha. All the best . BE BRAVE in selecting a partner.


Mohan Chandra Reddy
ASST.Manager (Accounts)
Ramky Group of Companies

ATTITUDE

There once was a woman who woke up one morning, looked in the mirror,

and noticed she had only three hairs on her head.

'Well,' she said, 'I think I'll braid my hair today.'

So she did and she had a wonderful day.

The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror

and saw that she had only two hairs on her head.

'H-M-M,' she said, 'I think I'll part my hair down the middle today.'

So she did and she had a grand day.

The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and noticed

that she had only one hair on her head.

'Well,' she said, 'today I'm going to wear my hair in a pony tail.'

So she did, and she had a fun, fun day.

The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and

noticed that there wasn't a single hair on her head.

'YAY!' she exclaimed. 'I don't have to fix my hair today!'

Attitude is everything.

Be kinder than necessary,

for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Live simply,

Love generously,

Care deeply,

Speak kindly,

and pray continually.

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...

It's about learning to dance in the rain.

It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived.

Life is too short to wake up with regrets.

Love the people who treat you right and pray for the ones that don’t.

A S H A

Source : from robert's story collection

Be busy like a bee

" If you can't forget some things in life. 

Make sure you don't give your self time to remember them ".

  

Ashuuu

Love sms

Boy - I bought a new phone
Girl - I wnt treat in Taj
Thy went to Taj, Aftr Dinner
Girl - 4rm Where Did U Got the Money to pay to Taj.
Boy - I Sold my Phone, wasn't Imp More Than U..
 

I N D I A

" India is our Country... 

we should be divided only be States names not by Caste names.......
So, We The Youth,
the Students should take initiate to eradicate the Caste Feeling at Colleges,Offices,even for Film stars,for love and Marriages.
Heaven is not only for a particular Caste.
Help India To Make Unity "

I Love My Country & Do u???? if so follow me...and my principle

Regards

Asha

Aim should be.....

Ur aim in life should be "54321O"
5-Five digit salary.
4-Four wheeler vehicle.
3-Three room home.
2-Two cute children.
1-One loving lifepartner.
0-Enemy.....!!

  

Cute Ashu

Future plans????

If u want to make
God really laugh,
just tel him your
future plans

God will Laugh at your Innocence

Because he has something better than you desires.

Asha

Attitude matters

• We have no right to ask when a sorrow comes unless we ask the same question for every joy that comes our way.
• Remember that NOT GETTING WHAT YOU WANT is Sometimes a Wonderful Stroke... of L U C K!
• Life is best for those who enjoy it,difficult for those who analyse it and worst for those who criticise it.
  
  Attitude defines our lives...................A S H A. 

Delete Love

Try to forget ur love?
Delete From Facebook: Done ✔

Delete From Msn: Done ✔
Delete From Yahoo: Done ✔

...Delete From Gmail: Done ✔
Delete From Cell Phone: Done ✔

Delete From The Heart: Error 

You Can't...Try It.

boyfrnd /girl frnd

Boy:Why haven't you had a boyfriend yet?
Girl:I'm not allowed,Why don't you have a girlfriend?
Boy: Cos you're not allowed to have a boyfriend yet :)

Ashuu

SMS

Boy proposed a girl, she rejected.
He was not sad
Friends asked Y U don’t feel?
Boy- Y should i feel?
I lost 1 who never loved me !
she lost 1 who really love her…

One Minute

One minute cant change ur life,but the decision taken in one minute will change your life.

Always take your own decision & enjoy your life....

Asha

Nothing is Old

Nothing is old Nothing is new,
Jus a matter of
Point of view,
Enjoy life as
Happy days r few. Bcz life is ocean
&
Happy moments
r like dew.

Good Lines

When mind is weak,a situation becomes Problem,
When mind is Balanced the situation becomes a Challenge..
When mind is strong that situation becomes Opportunity !

"You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.”

An empty Message

‎"Empty Text Messages Also Looks

A D O R A B L E

If You Like The


S E N D E R

" :-)

Live Life Wid All That You Have

I'v Seen People
Change Their Faith.
Experienced Love Change
Into Hate.
I'v Seen Love Sold For
Money.
People Who Are Devastated
Inside But Outside They're Funny.
I'v Learned To Expect
The Unexpected.
Perfection Doesn't Exist,
We're All Defected.
Everyone Cries,
Some Just Hide Their Tears.
Someone May Believe
You Are One In A Million.
For Others You Are Just
Another Nobody In The Billion.
So Live Life Wid All That You Have . . . =) 

joke

"Real Heart Touching Story"


A B0y Sent The Most Expensive Bird
That C0uld Speak 40 Languages As A
Birthday Gift 2 His Girlfriend.

Next Day He Asked About The Gift
.
B0y: Hows The Bird??
.
.
.
.
.

Girl:
Very Tasty :D 

Be Human not as a Monkey.....

This weekend I went to Srisailam tour along with my friends.Its such a wonderful place, with thick forest of nallamalla, huge mountains around, fresh water of krishna river, most of all, our dear loving lord Shiva temple.Its lovely and scenic place.I enjoyed alot with my stupid buddies. On our return journey, we saw alot of monkeys on trees, wanna spend some time seeing them, we just throw some eatables like biscuits, chocolates to them.They are not allowing other monkeys to eat, they are fighting even with them, even they are not allowing little baby moneys to eat.Suddenly i realized some of my friends are like Monkeys wont offer food to others before having food.It is one of the bad habit having food when others are in front of us without offering them.Even though they dont like it, they dont want, it is our goodselve to offer food even your favourite item.I told to many of my friends to give up that habit.We are not kids to behave like, not giving a piece of chocolate to others. 

So what i wanna say is , what i feel is dont be like monkeys, we are humans live and let live must be our principle, not only about food, we can offer place for others in a long queue, place for others to sit in a bus, serve eatables before having,think of others as they are also like us.

Be Human.

" LIVE AND LET LIVE "

Feel free to comment on this post.

Asha

Positive thinking makes everything possible

Thinking makes everything possible, life is all about to be happy, nothing can bring back our present... enjoy life as much as you can...

Whatever we think about, it is possible to achieve. In life we always have both sides, our duty is to find only the positive; positive has the power to change the negative into positive...

Everything is determined in our life by our attitude... in this, nothing is good and nothing is bad... our way of taking things is very important...

B+

AhsA

What is the most powerful thing in this world ?

What is the most powerful thing in this world? Well, some will say money, some say weapons and some might say nuclear bombs. For me the most powerful thing in this world is our THOUGHT.

WHY? Because true power is in our thinking. When we truly believe in something and we have faith in it, it will surely happen.

We must have confidence in what we believe. It could be anything; sometimes we think it is impossible, however anything impossible will become possible if we believe it truly from our heart and our soul.
Well I learn this from an ant. We can gain knowledge from everything. Thank you.

Asha

The bird over the swamp

                                                                             .

A bird lived resigned in a rotten tree in the swamp; it was used to be there. He ate worms and mud and was always dirty from the foul mud. His wings were rendered useless by the weight of the dirt, until one day a big gust of wind destroyed his hideout. The rotten tree was swallowed by the mud and the bird realized he would die. In a sudden desire to save himself, he began to flap hard to take flight. It took a lot of work, because he had forgotten how to fly, but he faced the numbing pain until he could get up and cross the wide sky, eventually reaching a fertile and beautiful forest.

The problems you face are often like the wind that has destroyed your hideout and you're forced to raise the flight or death. It’s never too late. No matter how you have lived, or the mistakes that were committed, or the opportunities that have been missed, or your age. 

Today is always the right time to say "enough", to shake off the mud and fly high and far.

Have a Great Morning.

Asha

Truth

When someone lies to u, It is not his fault..

Actually it is yours...

Bcoz U didn't give him the proper space to tell the truth.....


Isn't it
Asha.

Simply Simple

Its very simple

to be

Happy . . .

But,

its very difficult to

SIMPLE...!

Love All

It is easy to love the people far away. 
It is not always easy to
love those close to us. 
It is easier to give a cup of rice to relieve
hunger than to relieve the loneliness and 
pain of someone unloved in our own home. 
Bring love into your home for this is where our
love for each other must start.....


Asha

Good Words

We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. 
People make mistakes.
We are allowed to make mistakes. 
But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
Pause and ponder. 
Think before you act. Be patient. Forgive & forget. 
Love one and all.
If you judge people, you have no time to love them.


-Mother Theresa

What Women & Men See in Colours

ASHA

Winners Vs Losers

Winners Have Dreams

Losers Have Schemes

Winners See The Gains

Losers See The Pain

Winners See The Present

Losers See The Past

Winners Make It Happen

Losers Let It Happen

Winners See Possibilities

Losers See Problems

Winners Makes Commitments

Losers Makes Promises

Winners Are A Part Of The Team

Losers Are Apart From The Team

Winner Always Has A Programme

Loser Always Has An Excuse

Winner Says "Let Me Do It For You"

Loser Says "That Is Not My Job"

Winners Say "I Must Do Something"

Losers Say "Something Must Be Done"

Winner Is Always A Part Of The Answer

Loser Is Always A Part Of The Problem

Winner Sees An Answer For Every Problem

Loser Sees A Problem For Every Answer

Winner Sees A Solution To ProblemLoser Sees A Problem To Every Solution

Winners Believe In Win/Win

Loser Believe For Them To WinSomeone Has To Lose

Winner Says "It May Be Difficult But It Is Possible"

Loser Says "It May Be Possible But It Is Too Difficult"

Winner Makes A Mistake And Says "I Was Wrong"

Loser Makes A Mistake And Says "It Wasn't My Fault"

We make a LIVING by what we GET.

We make a LIFE by what we GIVE.

Building Your House

An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer-contractor of his plans to leave the house-building business to live a more leisurely life with his wife and enjoy his extended family. He would miss the paycheck each week, but he wanted to retire. They could get by.

The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go & asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes, but over time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end a dedicated career.

When the carpenter finished his work, his employer came to inspect the house. Then he handed the front-door key to the carpenter and said, "This is your house... my gift to you."

The carpenter was shocked!

What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently.

So it is with us. We build our lives, a day at a time, often putting less than our best into the building. Then, with a shock, we realize we have to live in the house we have built. If we could do it over, we would do it much differently.

But, you cannot go back. You are the carpenter, and every day you hammer a nail, place a board, or erect a wall. Someone once said, "Life is a do-it-yourself project." Your attitude, and the choices you make today, help build the "house" you will live in tomorrow. Therefore, Build wisely!

Asha

The Princess of Fire

There was once and incredibly rich, beautiful, and wise Princess. Tired of false suitors who were only interested in her money, she announced that she would only marry whoever managed to present her with the most valuable, tender, and sincere gift of all.

The palace filled up with flowers and gifts of every kind, letters describing undying love, and love-struck poems. Among all these wonderful gifts, she found a pebble, a simple dirty pebble. Intrigued, she demanded to see whoever it was who had offered this gift. Despite her curiosity, she pretended to be highly offended by the gift when the young man was brought before her. He explained it to her like this,

"Dear Princess, this pebble represents the most valuable thing one can give - it is my heart. It is also sincere, because it is not yet yours, and it is as hard as a stone. Only when it fills with love will it soften and be more tender than any other."

The young man quietly left, leaving the Princess surprised and captivated. She fell so in love that she took the little pebble with her wherever she went, and for months she regaled the young man with gifts and attention. But his heart remained as hard as the stone in her hands. Losing hope, she ended up throwing the pebble into a fire. In the heat of the fire, the sand crumbled from around it, and from out of that rough stone a beautiful golden figure emerged. With this, the Princess understood that she herself would have to be like the fire, and go about separating what is useless from what is truly important.

During the following months she set about changing the kingdom, and devoted her life, her wisdom, and her riches to separating what is truly valuable from what is unimportant. She gave up the luxury, the jewels, the excess; and it meant that everyone in the kingdom now had food to eat and books to read. So many people came away from their interaction with the Princess enchanted by her character and her charisma. Her mere presence transmitted such human warmth that they started to call her 'The Princess of Fire'.

And as with the pebble, the fire of her presence melted the hardness of the young man's heart. And just as he had promised, he became so tender and considerate that he made the Princess happy till the end of her days.

True love is the most powerful way to change the world from the inside, starting with ourselves.

Asha