Strength

I Asked for Strength & God gave me difficulties to make me STRONG.

Making peace for myself: it's my choice.

When you enter a place filled with tension, or are in need
of some calm loving energy in a hurry, imagine the color
pink, the color of unconditional love. Take a few deep
breaths and imagine your heart filling up with the color
pink. When a feeling of tranquility permeates your chest,
imagine that the color flows out from your heart and fills
the entire room. Feel a sense of peace saturate you and
those around you.

Exercise

So all of us know we should exercise more, but many of us don't. This is a health mistake we consciously make! And why is that? Simply because we refuse to admit the damage we are causing to our bodies by not working out. A number of people only start working out once they've experienced a warning signal. Don't wait for a heart attack to strike before you decide to opt for a lifestyle change. Make the change now. You don't need to train for the marathon to be in top shape. Half an hour of brisk walking three to four times a week will make a world of difference to your health. You could then increase this to forty minutes, four times a week - and you're all set. If you haven't exercised for a week, you're making a mistake.

Build a Bridge not a Wall with people

Kiss of the Year Love forever and ever

Prohibition Law On Woman

Just sharing. On the prohibition law on woman if get arrested after 6pm to 6am unless arrested by policewoman.   I read in a local newspaper yesterday about this incident  - a young girl was raped by a man posing as a plain clothes officer; he asked her to come to the police station when she and her male friend didn't have a driver`s license to show. He sent the boy off to get his license and asked the girl to accompany him to the police station. Took her instead to an isolated area where the horrendous crime was committed.  In fact, the law clearly states that between 6 pm and 6am, a woman has the right to REFUSE to go to the Police Station, even if an arrest warrant has been issued against her. It is a procedural issue that a woman can be arrested between 6pm and 6am, ONLY if she is arrested by a woman officer and taken to an ALL WOMEN police station. And if she is arrested by a male officer, it has to be proven that a woman officer was on duty at the time of arrest.  It is good for us to know our rights. To what extent it comes of use remains to be seen in any situation. But as they say, knowledge is power.  Just thought I`d share this with you. I did not know this and am sure lot of us will not know this - please be informed. And pass on this info to whom all u know.

Tum Bin

I believe the movie did not receive the attention it deserved due to the lead roles being newcomers. But film fanatics think otherwise because Tum Bin was nominated for 6 awards in 2001.Shekhar, a businessman, accidentally kills his associate Amar, and ridden with guilt, decides to watch over Amar's company and take care of his family and friends. However, he falls in love with Amar's ex fiancée Piya - who is to marry tycoon Abhi Gyan to save the company...The movie dictates how different phases in a person's life can not only affect them, but the people related to them too. It strongly teaches about how doing the right things work for you. And how the heart and the mind, both should be used in the matters of family and career.Tag line? Love will find a way

Clean UP

It didn't take me more than a day to understand that my problems are like math. They all have a solution. Only I need to relax and get to the root of it from all kinds of branches. These problems are harmless obstacles that can be overcome.
I mean, what about people who have been diagnosed with cancer but don’t have the resources to end it? What about people who cannot be blessed with children? Or worse, people who are under painful suffering, in shreds and pieces, still fighting for life inPalestine… what about several millions of people like that? Many of them didn't deserve to be where they are… But have then given up? They're still fighting for life. They're fighting, not for a healthy, wealthy or happy life. They're fighting for just life. Life, which in all, is everything.
Why can we not learn from their struggles? When did we start talking more about humanity and becoming less of humane... Breathe any air... drink any water... sleep anywhere- nothing's dirty.. it's our hearts that've become dirty. Find your clutter and work on it.

A True Love Story =(

A True Love Story =(

Here's a story of a girl who left all alone in her life... I was in 9th grade when a guy started loving him like hell. He was actually crazy for me. Used to gift me flowers, choclates and many more and I never ever accepted his proposal.He even cut his nerves and wrote my name on his wrist which was actually too daring but still I never ever realized his love for me. I always thought it's just an infactuation. But he never stepped back. In the school parties he used to follow me altough his subjects were different but still he used to manage that. The irritating thing he did was he hired a Video maker to shoot only my video in the school party. Which was too much... But when his friends asked him about this he used to say he is crazy for me. Not even him all our tachers as well. And it was still me who was not realizing his love.

Every day he used to follow me from school till my home and this happened for at least 3 years. But one day he didn't come I thought he might be busy with something. And the days passed away I couldn't see him. I thought he is fed up of coming after me. But I started missing him. After 2 months when he didn't come after me I met his friend and asked about him. I came to knew that he is in Hospital, there are only 3 months left for him to live. As he got Brain tumor which was not curable I was stunned. I couldn't stop myself and rushed to the hospital where I saw him lying in the bed and only asking for me. And when he saw me there I think he was the happiest person on this world he said that he really loves me and wants to marry me. I knew the truth but I accepted his proposal we couldn't marry but I gave him my love for next 3 months. I gave him all I have physically as well as mentally.

I recall that day when he was in his last stage. He was terribly weak and there were only three words he was saying that he loves me more than anything and will come back in my life soon. He was just praying for one thing that in every Birth he gets me as his love.

He is no more now I lost him on 15th March 04 but I have his love for me... Our baby (which came when we made love in those 3 months) and I have never married anyone. As I don't want to share our love with anyone. It's been a year passed I am living with my baby and with his love. I know he is there with me and will protect me everytime..

I really got tears in my eyes when i read this true story, wanna share with u all..Hope u too like this.

Regards

Ever skip breakfast.

Never, ever skip breakfast. Remember, when you wake up in the morning it"s been around 10-12 hours since your last meal. Your body needs food now, more than at any other time. Eat a heavy breakfast. You will then be busy through the day, and the calories will get expended quickly. If you are trying to diet, eat a light dinner. Here are some more common health mistakes we make. Being informed and making a few changes can help make us feel a whole lot better.

Common Beliefs Men Have About Women

BELIEF – 1 :

TRUTH :
Woman are always looking for ways to makes things better. Dont take her suggestions as Complaints or Critisms, but as her desire to make the Relationship or Situation the best that it can be.

BELIEF – 2 :
A STRONG, CONFIDENT WOMAN DOESNT NEED A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF HER

TRUTH :
Everyone Loves To Be Taken Care Of and To Feel Needed. Even if a Woman can fix things around the house or change the oil in her car, She will still ask for help so she can feel Your Strength, Support and Protection. Dont Ever Stop Asking, �What Can I Do For You ?� because it shows her that you care

BELIEF – 3 :
WOMAN ONLY WANT TO CONTROL MEN

TRUTH :

Its Not About Control ; Its About Love. When a Woman sees a Man Hurting , Struggling or Overwhelmed, Her Goal is to Help, Not Control. Let Her give You a Helping Hand.

BELIEF – 4 :
KEEPING A WOMAN REQUIRES A LOT OF HARD WORK, TIME AND MONEY

TRUTH :

A Serious Relationship Requires Time and Effort to Cultivate It. You shouldnt Look at it a a Burden. Your Wife or Girlfriend will reciprocate the effort you put into it.

BELIEF – 5 :
YOU CANT LIE TO WOMAN

TRUTH :
Woman Are Extremely Capable of Picking up Moods and Attitudes and can easily Read Body Language and Facial Expressions. Although You may think that You have gotten away with a Great Lie, She is either letting it slide because She wants to keep the Peace, or She is Lying to Herself because Shes Afraid of the Truth.

BELIEF – 6 :
JEALOUSY AND POSSESSIVENESS ARE A PART OF BEING A WOMAN

TRUTH:

Woman are Protective of What Belongs to them. They Protect the things they Value, especially when it comes to Relationships. Its not that she doesnt Trust You ; She is Guarding the Relationship. You are too Precious to Her for Her to allow anything bad to happen.

BELIEF – 7 :
WOMAN ARE EMOTIONAL

TRUTH :

Woman Dont Hide their Feelings. They articulate whats going on in their Minds. Theres nothing wrong with emotions � We All Have Them. Being in Touch with their emotions causes women to be Sensitive and Caring, and thats why Men Love Them

For Animals Lovers~Like me

-=- tHoUgHt 0f ThE dAy -=-

  0ne FAKE FRIEND  Can Do More HARM  Than  HUNDRED ENEMIES ... !!!


Ashu

Our lifetime

A Fish and a Fisherman

A fisherman had been fishing for along time but without luck. At last he tugged at his net and saw a small fish caught in it. "Please let me go," begged the fish, "I will grow bigger in a few days and then you can catch me again." The fisherman said, "Now that I have caught you I won't let you go. If I leave you, I may never see you again." MORAL: A bird in hand is worth two in bush.

Colors To My Life ... ♥ ♥

Boy: Do You Sell Box  Of Crayons   
Girl: No Why ? ? ?   
Boy: Because You Bring  Colors To My Life ... ♥ ♥ 

Let It Go.

Don't Dwell In The Bad Things  That Happened To You, 

 Let It Go. 

 If Not  It will Rob You 0f An Awesome  And Amazing Future 

I dont need Words to Express

Dont say U don't Have time to do . .

Happy Sunday

Have a Super Duper Sunday to all my Readers..!!
 Ashu

To be Happy in Life

Only You can Stop u

My love for you is endless.

Life Goes On....!!!

Its not the years in Life

Missing you

Ask yourself this question: "Will this matter a year from now?" Stop Worrying...Be Happyyyy

waiting for a bus

When the bus come, you look at it and you said to yourself, "eeee... so full...cannot sit down one". You said to yourself, "I'll wait for the next one."

So you let the bus go and waited for the second bus. Then the second bus came, you looked at it and you said, "eeee...this bus so old... surely very uncomfortable one." So you let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus.

After a while, another bus came. It's not crowded and not old but you said, "eeee... no air-con one...and the weather is so warm, better wait for the next one. So again you let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus. Then the sky started to get dark as it is getting late. You panicked and jump on to the next coming bus. It is not until much later that you found out that you had boarded on to the wrong bus! So you wasted your time and money waiting for what you want! Even if an aircon bus came, can you ensure that the aircon bus won't break down or will the aircon be too old for you?

So people...(mostly girls but guys too!) want to make sure that what you want is not wrong. But it wouldn't hurt to give other people a chance, right? If you found that the "bus" doesn't suit, you just press the red button and get off the bus! But wait...I am sure all of you have this experienced before. You saw a bus is coming (the bus you want of course) you flagged it and the driver acted blur by pretending not seeing you and zoomed pass you!

The bottom line of being loved is like waiting for a bus and whether you want to get on the bus and give the bus a chance depends totally on you and walking alone is just like being out of love. If you love someone set him/her free. If he/she comes back to you, you know they are yours. If they don't then it was never meant to be. Remember to always say what you mean. If you love someone, tell. Don't be afraid to express yourself. Reach out and tell someone what he or she means to you. Because when you decide that it is the right time, it might be too late. Seize the day. Never have regrets.

 

A Nice Article about Love by Swami Vivekananda

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were

sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with

some water and held it before me, and said this:

“You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love.”

This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow

it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to

close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the

first cracks it finds.

This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love…they try

to posses it, they demand, they expect… and just like the water spilling

out of your hand, love will retrieve from you .

For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are

people you love, allow them to be free beings.

Give and don’t expect.

Advise, but don’t order.

Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly

practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must

sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an

unconditional caring.”

Passing thought… Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take;

but by the moments that take our breath away…..

Life is beautiful!!! Live it !!! and Love it…!

You cant Hurt

You can H U R T a heart till it loves u..not after that....

Do plenty of small works

Instead of waiting too long to do something BIG,
Do plenty of small works- It brings better Results.
Because a River is always formed by the Drops.

The Tailor's Needle

A tailor was at work. He took a piece of cloth and with a pair of shining, 
costly, scissors, he cut the cloth into various bits. Then he put the pair 
of scissors at his feet. Then he took a small needle and thread and 
started to sew the bits of cloth, into a fine shirt. When the spell of 
sewing was over, he stuck the needle on to his turban.

The tailor's son who was watching it asked him:

"Father, the scissors are costly and look so beautiful. But you throw 
them down at your feet. This needle is worth almost nothing; you 
can get a dozen for an anna. Yet, you place it carefully on your head 
itself. Is there any reason for this illogical behaviour?"

"Yes, my son. The scissors have their function, no doubt; but 
they only cut the cloth into bits. The needle, on the contrary,
 unites the bits and enhances the value of the cloth. Therefore,
 the needle to me is more precious and valuable. The value of a
 thing depends on its utility, son, not on its cost-price or appearance."

I Love You, Honey!

They have been married for two years. He loves 
literature, and often posts his work on the net, 
but nobody ever reads them. He is also into 
photography, and he handle their wedding photos. 
He loves her very much. Likewise with her. 
She has a quick temper, and always bullies him. 
He is a gentleman, and always gives in to her. 


Today, she's being "willful" again.

Her: "Why can't you be the photographer f
or my friend's wedding? She promised she'd pay."

Him: "I don't have time that day."

Her: "Humph!"

Him: "Huh?"

Her: "Don't have time? Write less of those novels,
and you will have all the time you need."

Him: "I ... someone will definitely recognize my work some day."

Her: "Humph! I don't care; you'll have to do it for her.

Him: "No."

Her: "Just this once?"

Him: "No."

Negotiation's broken. So, she gave the final warning:
"Give me a Yes within three days, or else ..."

First day.

She "withheld" the kitchen, bathroom, computer,
refrigerator, television, and hi-fi... Except the
double bed, to show her "benevolence". Of course,
she has to sleep on it too. He didn't mind, as he
still has some cash in his pockets.

Second day.

She conducted a raid and removed everything from
his pockets, and warned, "Seek any external help,
and you bear the consequences." He's nervous now.
Night. On the bed. He begs for mercy, hoping that
she'll end this state. She doesn't give a damn. No
way am I giving in, whatever he says. Until he agrees.

Third day.

Night. On the Bed. He's lying on the bed, looking
to one side. She's lying on the bed, looking to the
other side.

Him: "We need to talk."

Her: "Unless it's about the wedding, forget it."

Him: "It's something very important."

She remains silent.

Him: "Let's get a divorce."

She did not believe her ears.

Him: "I got to know a girl."

She's totally angry, and wanted to hit him.

But she held it down, wanting to let him finish.

But her eyes already felt wet.

He took a photo out from his chest.

Probably from his undershirt pocket, that's the only
place she didn't go through yesterday. How careless.

Him: "She's a nice girl."

Her tears fell.

Him: "She has a good personality too."

She's heartbroken, because he puts a photo of some
other girl "close to his heart".

Him: "She says that she'll support me fully in my pursue
for literature after we got married."

She's very jealous, because she said the same thing
in the past.

Him: "She loves me truly."

She wishes to sit up and scream at him: "Don't I?"

Him: "So, I think she won't force me to do something
that I don't want to do."

She's thinking, but the rage won't subside.

Him: "Want to take a look at the photo I took for her?"

Her: ".....!"

He brings the photo before her eyes.

She's in a total rage, hits his hand away and leaves a
burning mark of a slap on his face.

He sighs.

She cries.

He puts the photo back to his pocket.

She pulls her hand back under the blanket.

He turns off the light, and sleeps.

She turns on the light, and sits up.

He's asleep.

She lost sleep.

She regrets treating him the way she treated him.

She cried again, and thought about a lot of things.

She wants to wake him up.

She wants to have an intimate talk with him.

She doesn't want to push him anymore.

She stares at his chest. She wants to see how the girl looks.

She slips the photo out. She wanted to cry, and she wanted to laugh.

It's a nicely taken photo of her. A photo he took for her.

She bends down, and kissed him on his cheek.

He smiled. He was just pretending to be asleep ...

-- Author Unknown

Alexander Fleming

His name was Fleming, and he was a poor Scottish farmer. One day, while trying to eke out a living for his family, he heard a cry for help coming from a nearby bog. He dropped his tools and ran to the bog. There, mired to his waist in black muck, was a terrified boy, screaming and struggling to free himself. Farmer Fleming saved the lad from what could have been a slow and terrifying death. 

The next day, a fancy carriage pulled up to the Scotsman's sparse surroundings. An elegantly dressed nobleman stepped out and introduced himself as the father of the boy Farmer Fleming had saved.

"I want to repay you," said the nobleman. "You saved my son's life."

"No, I can't accept payment for what I did," the Scottish farmer replied, waving off the offer. At that moment, the farmer's own son came to the door of the family hovel.

"Is that your son?" the nobleman asked. "Yes," the farmer replied proudly.

"I'll make you a deal. Let me take him and give him a good education.

If the lad is anything like his father, he'll grow to a man you can be proud of."

And that he did. In time, Farmer Fleming's son graduated from St. Mary's Hospital Medical School in London, and went on to become known throughout the world as the noted Sir Alexander Fleming, the discoverer of Penicillin.

Years afterward, the nobleman's son was stricken with pneumonia. 

What saved him? Penicillin.

The name of the nobleman? Lord Randolph Churchill.

His son's name? Sir Winston Churchill.

Someone once said what goes around comes around.

Mom Sacrifice : Story

My mom only had one eye. I hated her... she was such an embarrassment. My mom ran a small shop at a flea market. She collected little weeds and such to sell... anything for the money we needed she was such an embarrassment. There was this one day during elementary school.

I remember that it was field day, and my mom came. I was so embarrassed.How could she do this to me? I threw her a hateful look and ran out. The next day at school..."Your mom only has one eye?!" and they taunted me.

I wished that my mom would just disappear from this world so I said to my mom, "Mom, why don't you have the other eye?! You're only going to make me a laughingstock. Why don't you just die?" My mom did not respond. I guess I felt a little bad, but at the same time, it felt good to think that I had said what I'd wanted to say all this time. Maybe it was because my mom hadn't punished me, but I didn't think that I had hurt her feelings very badly.That night...I woke up, and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water. My mom was crying there, so quietly, as if she was afraid that she might wake me. I took a look at her, and then turned away. Because of the thing I had said to her earlier, there was something pinching at me in the corner of my heart. Even so, I hated my mother who was crying out of her one eye. So I told myself that I would grow up and become successful, because I hated my one-eyed mom and our desperate poverty.

Then I studied really hard. I left my mother and came to Seoul and studied, and got accepted in the Seoul University with all the confidence I had. Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. Then I had kids, too. Now I'm living happily as a successful man. I like it here because it's a place that doesn't remind me of my mom.

This happiness was getting bigger and bigger, when someone unexpected came to see me "What?! Who's this?!" ...It was my mother...Still with her one eye. It felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on me. My little girl ran away, scared of my mom's eye.

And I asked her, "Who are you? I don't know you!!!" as if I tried to make that real. I screamed at her "How dare you come to my house and scare my daughter! GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!" And to this, my mother quietly answered, "oh, I'm so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address," and she disappeared. Thank good ness... she doesn't recognize me. I was quite relieved. I told myself that I wasn't going to care, or think about this for the rest of my life.

Then a wave of relief came upon me...one day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. I lied to my wife saying that I was going on a business trip. After the reunion, I went down to the old shack, that I used to call a house...just out of curiosity there, I found my mother fallen on the cold ground. But I did not shed a single tear. She had a piece of paper in her hand.... it was a letter to me.She wrote:My son...I think my life has been long enough now. And... I won't visit Seoul anymore... but would it be too much to ask if I wanted you to come visit me once in a while? I miss you so much. And I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. But I decided not to go to the school.... For you... I'm sorry that I only have one eye, and I was an embarrassment for you.You see, when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. As a mother, I couldn't stand watching you having to grow up with only one eye... so I gave you mine...I was so proud of my son that was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye. I was never upset at you for anything you did. The couple times that you were angry with me. I thought to myself, 'it's because he loves me.' I miss the times when you were still young around me.I miss you so much. I love you. You mean the world to me.My world shattered!!!Then I cried for the person who lived for me... My Mother.