30 October, 2011

21 Tips for a great life!





GOOD MORNING....

ONE
Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE
Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR
When you say, ‘I love you,’ mean it …
FIVE
When you say, ‘I’m sorry,’ look the person in the eye.
SIX
Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN
Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT
Never laugh at anyone’s dream. People who don’t have dreams don’t have much.
NINE
Love deeply and passionately.. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.
TEN
In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN
Don’t judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE
Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN
When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask, ‘Why do you want to know?’
FOURTEEN
Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN
Say ‘God bless you’ when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN
When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
SEVENTEEN
Remember the three R’s: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN
Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN
When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY
Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
TWENTY-ONE
Spend some time alone.



27 October, 2011

May be a Bad Day not a bad Life

It's just a bad day..

Ashu
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Four Boy Friends


Once upon a time, there was this girl who had four boyfriends.

She loved the 4th boyfriend the most and adored him with rich robes and treated him to the finest of delicacies. She gave him nothing but the best.

She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very much and was always showing him off to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one day he would leave her for another.

She also loved her 2nd boyfriend. He was her confidant and was always kind, considerate and patient with her. Whenever this girl faced a problem, she could confide in him, and he would help her get through the difficult times.

The girls 1st boyfriend was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom. However, she did not love the first boyfriend. Although he loved her deeply,
she hardly took notice of him.

One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was short. She thought of her luxurious life and wondered, I now have four boyfriends with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone..'

Thus, she asked the 4th boyfriend, I loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?'

'No way!', replied the 4th boyfriend, and he walked away without another word.

His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.

The sad girl then asked the 3rd boyfriend, 'I loved you all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?

'No!', replied the 3rd boyfriend. 'Life is too
good! When you die, I'm going to marry someone else!'

Her heart sank and turned cold.

She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, 'I have always turned to you for help and you've always been there for me.

When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?'

'I'm sorry, I can't help you out this
time!', replied the 2nd boyfriend.
'At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave.'

His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the girl was devastated.

Then a voice called out: 'I'll go with you.
I'll follow you no matter where you go.'

The girl looked up, and there was her 1st boyfriend. He was very skinny as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect.

Greatly grieved, the girl said, 'I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!.

In truth, you have 4 boyfriends in your lives:

Your 4th boyfriend is your body. No matter how much time and effort you lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you die.

Your 3rd boyfriend is your possessions, status and wealth. When you die, it will all go to others.

Your 2nd boyfriend is your family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up to the
grave.

And your 1st boyfriend is your Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world.

However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you where ever you go. Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the
only part of you that will follow you.

Remember, when the world pushes you to your knees, you're in the perfect position to pray.

Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It  means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections. I hope this touched you!

Do not go where the path may lead, go instead, where there is no path and leave a trail.'

                                               'Smile, it's contagious!'

Ashu
asha3886@gmail.com


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