Life is Beautiful - Never Ever Give Up: 1/1/12

31 January, 2012

A Hole in the Fence

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence....

Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The day passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, “You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence.”

The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.

Friends and loved ones are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their hearts to us. Water your relationships with kindness… and they will grow. So be careful little lips what you say…! And you won't chase friendships away

GOLDEN WORDS*

When things go wrong, getting 'UPSET' does not help...

But Getting 'UP' to 'SET' things right, always makes life easier..!

Ashu

30 January, 2012

Dream, Reality, Memory (Relationship)

There are few stages in a relationship. I'm going to write on how a relationship starts and how it ends. Sound ohhhhhhh, but hey, that's life honey

A life when many things are not clear yet.

The story goes...

1. When you just met.
It is the first time you met him. You now seem to have a crush on him, feels like today shouldn't meet tomorrow. Let the earth pauses and stop circling.

2. When you spend time together.
So now you guys are friends, indeed getting so close. Texting, calling and chatting to each other. Wishing each other good nights and beautiful dreams.

3. He makes jokes and laugh at yours.
He is everything you could ever wish in a guy. He got jokes that make your days feel so light and wonderful. You make jokes, and he laughs. Laughing loud, giggles and everything. He also says that he misses your laugh and giggles. That makes you smiles endlessly :)

4. All the movies, hangouts and hobbies done together.
Day by day, you get to know each other better. Sharing interests, going to places and mark beautiful memories. A feeling grows, getting clear and suddenly realize that the relationship should step to another level. There should be something, something called love. How happy to be in that place, am I right?

5. He bought you something more valuable.
He traveled to Goa along with his friends on a holiday trip and you miss him a lot (especially) the days he was not in town. In fact, you miss him everyday. When he came back, he bought you something. Do you know what that means? Yeah, he misses you too, thus when he is out somewhere he think of you. Lucky.

6. He called to ask how your day went.
He called you at anytime, just to know if your day went good or the other way. A phone call that may take few minutes or less than that, but it made your day. By the end of the conversation he'll say "Take care, miss you." You get used to his calls and days would be incomplete without them.

7. He complimented you.
You'll be shy about it and try to avoid talking about it, just because it's been so long that you wish he'll compliment you. The day finally came, he said you're just so beautiful, with your smiles and all (from the very start). Seems like you hardly put your sight at him. :)

8. When he came all the way to see you.
Miles make distance but that is not a matter. He makes every efforts just to be with you once in a while. Cherish great moment together. Oh, so in love.

9. When he helped you with many grown up things.
He helped you a lot, seems like he is now at your service and you don't need anyone else. He is just more than enough. You guys exchange thoughts about life, future things, marriage, houses, kids and so on. You trusted him. Something is about to ring, you wish.

But you know, not every relationship works...

10. He starts keeping secrets from you.
You guys were really outspoken in almost everything, but now he seems to hide something. But you stay positive.

11. When he's being secretive of the content of his phone.
Something is just not right, his phone rings, pretty sometimes. You're getting curious. Whatsup. But he didn't tell you anything, checking his phone is a no way anymore. You suddenly feel close no more, a wall has been created. Misunderstandings happened.

12. When he doesn't answer your call or reply your text.
It has been all day you called and send him texts but none, nothing in respond. You're so upset. It continues the following days, you're just so down after all.

13. When he raises his voice.
You got a chance to talk things over.But you remain silent. Out of your expectation, he raises his voice. He's no gentlemen anymore, no more jokes, no more laugh, just no more. You feel so uninvited.

14. When he flirts with other girls.
His attention is no more at you, he even leave you hang in as he wanted. He flirts with another girl, you hardly believe he just done that to you. It hurts you so much. It hurts more when he flirts and compliments the other girl just the way when he was so into you, take pictures together.

15. When you know that you just doesn't accept him anymore...
Its all over, he gave a your place to some one else...He moved on. You're scrolling the memories and good times. He doesn't give a damn at all.