A coin has two faces, and quite similarly in our lives we have two faces to look at. In any eventualities, we could either be looking at the brighter or darker side of life. Believe me, most people opt to think of the negative more than the positive of everything they see.
A friend you haven't met for quite some time. He/She possesses 99 perfect look but one defect could over shadow his 99. He/She could be intelligence, smart,beautiful, well dressed, kind hearted and handsome r cute ,but on the day you meet him/her, his mouth smells might take you off. All the other qualities he carries are not important to you at that moment of time. Perhaps you might even try to avoid him. Can this happen to us? You have the choice to look at him on the bright side or the darker side here.
I normally look at the brighter and positive aspects of life. Whenever i meet another friend, i will always capitalize the good points in her. Even i might not know, i will still say something nice and sweet to hear. These are words i often used, "You look great and cute today!", "You have an intelligent look!" or "Your cute face attracts alot of people here!" These compliments help to lift the energy of our friends.
If ever i want to let a good friend who is loosing weight or perhaps is gaining weight which might not be benefiting to him/her, i will say it indirectly to avoid hurting his feeling. Try this; "You are a great handsome guy, if only you put on extra weight, many girls would fall for you" or "You are pretty, if you are a little slimmer, you attract all men for sure." Do it with some compliments first, before adding the down side.
I hope all my dears, honeys ,friends would listen to my advice here, give sincere appreciations to everyone you meet. Please don't be direct with your thought when you see any defects. The facts of life is, "A sweet lie is better than a hurting truth!
-Ashu
A friend you haven't met for quite some time. He/She possesses 99 perfect look but one defect could over shadow his 99. He/She could be intelligence, smart,beautiful, well dressed, kind hearted and handsome r cute ,but on the day you meet him/her, his mouth smells might take you off. All the other qualities he carries are not important to you at that moment of time. Perhaps you might even try to avoid him. Can this happen to us? You have the choice to look at him on the bright side or the darker side here.
I normally look at the brighter and positive aspects of life. Whenever i meet another friend, i will always capitalize the good points in her. Even i might not know, i will still say something nice and sweet to hear. These are words i often used, "You look great and cute today!", "You have an intelligent look!" or "Your cute face attracts alot of people here!" These compliments help to lift the energy of our friends.
If ever i want to let a good friend who is loosing weight or perhaps is gaining weight which might not be benefiting to him/her, i will say it indirectly to avoid hurting his feeling. Try this; "You are a great handsome guy, if only you put on extra weight, many girls would fall for you" or "You are pretty, if you are a little slimmer, you attract all men for sure." Do it with some compliments first, before adding the down side.
I hope all my dears, honeys ,friends would listen to my advice here, give sincere appreciations to everyone you meet. Please don't be direct with your thought when you see any defects. The facts of life is, "A sweet lie is better than a hurting truth!
-Ashu
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