Be True to your Love....!

One of my friends is not doing well for the 3-4 days. She is an active, cute girl ofcourse, she is not going to office saying that she is not doing well, for headache and fever. We our friends thought that because of  her office hectic work, she is not doing well. I advice her to go home for a week or two so that she may recover her health soon.But she is not interested to go home. Later some how, we came to know that she is facing a problem in her love life.Though it is her personal matter, i dont wanna see my friend in that condition, and asked what's  her problem...?

We all aware of her love story well, as we are roomies from past three years.She is having a boyfriend, who belongs to same office. They both are good looking pair ofcourse, both are well educated, earning handsome money, they are ready to marry with in a year r two. She narrated her problem that her boyfriend is well and good, but he is showing interest in some other girl also. So its an unbearable pain to her, when others in her office are talking about this matter directly to her.

She said that she loves him even after knowing about their affair, the same thing happened twice before in thier love life but as she cant live without him,she forgive all his mistakes. Now her problem is she really loved him truly, even ready to marry him, but that fellow is not constant in his love life, she was in confusion, whether to continue with him or not?????

I replied her simply "one who loves her first, will never look for second girl" and  what i feel is 

" Am requesting all, not to play with feelings of others. You have right to love more than one girl/ boy, you can keep affairs with whomever you like, but just think of a second of your loved one's before doing this. How they feel bad. If your partner do this to you- how will you feel...its quiet normal to break up relations these days  ? If your not constant just be as friends, but dont fall in love and increase feelings in your heart. And a girl should have a capability to maintain her boyfriend without any these type of distractions.Even if she is good, and boy is doing such type of stupid things.Better to give up,then to be with him..!! and lead a better life.Who knows she may get a very good and better person than him. She may be more happy and lovable.Even same for boys too,if your love(girl friend) is not true  to you, don't become mad,and try to commit suicide attempts please.Just  remember for your girl there may be other boy, but for your parents, your are the only son.Be strong and face the situation, keep on concentrating on your careers and other things. 

" Make him/her feel that she really missed a gem, a good loving person in thier life ".

Be original to yourself, your born as an original be like that dont die as a copy. Dont feel if others are not loving you.Realise that they are hell lot of people who loves you. Its waste of time feeling for those, who are not in your life, even please dont spoil your physical and mental health. Be bold and strong. Keep on concentrating on other things which gives you happiness and joy. Be more with your friends gang.Iam sure you will get a wonderful person in your life. Be dedicated to your love life too and  don't  hurt unnecessarily  for your happiness and fun".

Hope this post may be useful to someone some where who has a feeling of insecurity in thier love life and who failed in their Love like my buddy.Cheer up. Move on...life has to go on and on........Its not the matter of good looking couple, its all about good understanding couple.

"Life is Only Once...Why so serious...keep aside your unnecesary topics, concentrate more on useful things...

Keep Smiling"

"Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: They're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place you go to take ".

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Regards

Asha..!!